
Originally Posted by
andromeda31
Hi!
Well, in hindsight, I wish I would have waited until if/when the hip came out of the socket on it's own to have it done. But we went by what all the doctors were saying (though doing surgeries is the way surgeons make money!), how we should do it 'now' to prevent that scenario from happening. Before, she walked almost independently in a reverse walker. Not now. Though that alone is not the full cause of all her setbacks (shunt issues & seizures contributed). The recovery: we had a bedpan thing (fracture pan I think it was called)...useless. It was much easier to diaper her, we put a size 2 on the inside of cast and a size 6 on the outside. It worked pretty well and she stayed pretty clean (when cast was cut off after many wks). The best advice I remember is that the first week after really sucks and then it is boring which I found to be spot on. She had this done in 2008 so she was 7. It was also January so it made getting around h*ll. Cold, snow, ice....you're in MI, right, so you can imagine?! (I'm in WI). And in the spica cast, impossible to fit in car seat or wear pants, so I used lots of blankets and would recline the van seat a lot and fit her in and buckle up and pray not to get in accident. Though with the cold we left only when absolutely necessary. It would have been nice to be able to take her out in the wheelchair (special rental one) for fresh air or change of scenery but not in the nasty winter though.
AFTER: Her leg that they took a piece of bone out of to rebuilt hip is now .75 inches shorter than other. This sucks. I have to get shoes modified, makes it a challenge to get her real wheelchair seat fitting well, all sorts of stuff like that which I didn't consider when they talked about cutting her thigh bone. I might have chosen cadaver bone I think if I had to choose again. Hard to say. They did imply that her leg would 'catch up' Well, after 4 yrs it is still shorter. The hardware screwing it all back together was very 'prominent' and seemed to cause her pain. They kept saying if she had another surgery, they could take it out as it should be all healed and not necessary to be screwed together. So in 2010 when she had a shunt revision, her leg hardware was removed. One week later her femur fractured where the hardware was. It was disgusting, I thought I would vomit when I saw the xray. It was at a 90 degree angle. Of course when I first brought her in, I got the 'evil eye' from the staff (I kept saying she just had surgery on it as they kept asking if I dropped her)...after they saw the xray, it was clear it had fractured where the screws came out so then everyone was super nice to me (and gave her lots of morphine then for the pain). The really sucky thing? This again, happened in January!!! So for another 2 months she was stuck in the house immobilized. But that time she wore the 'medieval torture device'...a metal frame thing vs spica cast. That was marginally nicer as it was removable for bathing. They said that probably the meds she takes (depakote) caused the bone that formed during original surgery healing was not 'good bone'. Whatever. So now she can never have that hardware out though they did put in a low profile plate this time. It does still stick out oddly at times. Again, first week sucked, then it was boring. How old is your friend? I had 9 weeks of bedrest during one of my pregnancies and it wasn't so bad. For me though, I was happy to lay around and read books & cross stitch all day. And that was before laptops were common so if I had a computer in my lap I really would have been set. For Caitlin, it was harder to entertain. It is hard enough for her to do stuff without being laid up so she watched a LOT of tv. And I had to hand feed her as I didn't want crumbs all over the bed. So that gets old fast! If you have any questions, feel free to ask me, I'm happy to answer anything! :) Good luck to your friend!!
Lisa O.