((((((Annexedwa)))))) ~
To BrainTalk!
I'm glad that you found us, but I'm sorry that you need to be here.
You are wise to get a second opinion. Perhaps you could try making a list of all of your questions to take with you to the appointment, so that you don't forget anything. Ask about the risks/benefits of the angiogram. Ask about other options and treatment possibilities. Ask for detailed information on surgery, including recovery.
After you've received the answers from both neurosurgeons, make another list of Pros and Cons, to help you decide what is the best choice for you. Scour the internet for information about your condition, because knowledge is power.
Unfortunately, this forum isn't as active as it once was, and I do hope that other members, with experience (which I don't have), will see your post and respond. Perhaps you could peruse the Archives of this forum to see whether there is any information there, which might help you.
I can only imagine how frightened you are, particularly when you are uncertain about what is the best path for you to follow. If you can find ways to help you relax, such as meditation, deep breathing, prayer, etc., then by all means, employ those techniques now.
I'm sending healing positive energy your way, with a prayer that you will be diagnosed and treated properly, so that your precious one year old has a long life with you.
Love & Light,
Rose